Are you at risk?

If you answered yes to even one of these questions, you are likely in an abusive relationship.

If you need to talk, call us at 1-866-644-3574

Click here to find the domestic violence agency in your community.

 How is your relationship?

Does your partner...

  •  Embarrass you with bad names and put-downs? 
  •  Look at you or act in ways that scare you? 
  •  Control what you do, whom you see or talk to, or where you go? 
  •  Stop you from seeing or talking to friends or family?
  •  Take your money or Social Security, make you ask for money, or refuse to give you money? 
  •  Make all the decisions?
  •  Tell you you're a bad parent or threaten to take away or hurt your children? 
  •  Act like the abuse is no big deal, it's your fault, or even deny doing it? 
  •  Destroy your property or threaten to kill your pets? 
  •  Intimidate you with guns, knives, or other weapons? 
  •  Shove you, slap you, or hit you?
  •  Force you to drop charges?
  •  Threaten to commit suicide?
  •  Threaten to kill you? 
  •  Monitor your time and make you account for every minute when you run errands, go to work, etc.? 
  •  Pressure you into sex? 
  •  Tell you no one else will love you?? 
  •  Interfere with your ability to work?

If you answered yes to even one of these questions, you are likely in an abusive relationship.

If you need to talk, call us at 1-866-644-3574. Trained advocates are available 24 hours a day 7 days a week.  Your call will be confidential, you do not need to provide your name.

To find the domestic violence agency in your area go to our member program page


*This page was adapted from the Tennessee Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence’s website, www.tcadsv.org

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1-800-277-5570

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Call our hotlines anywhere in New Hampshire for support. Stalking victims should call the Domestic Violence Hotline. TTY available at 1-800-Relay-NH.

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